queer folk
WHO IS THIS PAGE FOR?
This page is for anyone who identifies as:
Bisexual, Pansexual, Omnisexual, Fluid and Queer. Crossdressers and other Queer terms not mentioned here or other pages would also be welcome.
PRICES VARY SO PLEASE SEE EVENTS PAGES FOR PRICE OR CONTACT US DIRECTLY:
Hi, I am Michelle; Your Intemperance Host.
My pronouns are: She/Her
I avoid labels but understand that itself is a label and an oxymoron. When I must use a label, I am most comfortable with Pansexual.
My co-host and husband Doug's pronouns are He/Him. Doug identifies as straight however is at least a 2 on the Kinsey scale and usually goes with the flow.
We warmly welcome guests who identify as Queer or Gender Diverse at all of our events.
Each party has its own vibe and demographic, so some may feel more aligned with your preferences than others — we leave that choice to you.
Parties we consider more Queer-friendly will include pricing details to help guide your decision.
There are rooms to change into once you arrive if you need.
Usual swingers and social etiquette apply.
To secure your spot, please get in touch for booking and payment transfer details.
If you have any questions or simply want to connect before booking, we’d love to speak with you over the phone—sometimes a quick conversation is the perfect way to set the tone
Please let us know what sort of experience you have on the scene when booking so we know how much of an eye we need to keep on you on the night. If you are completely new, we would keep a closer eye on you more so than someone who is an experienced swinger for example to ensure you are feeling safe and comfortable.
SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL LATER IN THE NIGHT OR THE NEXT DAY AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN
Most of the same rules do apply to Queer Folk as everyone else:
- Accept being told no without requiring an explanation
- Can hold a conversation
- Follow the rules
- Follow host instructions
- Can be respectful at all times
- Always ask before you touch
- Are not visibly under the influence of drugs and who drink responsibly
- Are presentable and hygienic
INSIDER TIPS: You are the Queer Of The Night!
- This is a body positive party. We welcome and admire any body type'
- Hold firm boundaries
- Empower yourself to say no! This is important for you to have on this scene
- If you are new to the scene, think about what you are and are not willing to do. This generally changes as you get more comfortable on the scene, however what are your initial boundaries
- If you are new to the scene, ask Michelle anything. She is quite experienced and can guide you.
- No pressure to play ever! You are welcome to just come and socialise and/or watch if you like although I would not recommend starting by attending a Gang Bang in this instance. Any other party would be perfect.
- Do not do anything you do not want to do or are not comfortable doing. You will regret it tomorrow
- Be kind when you say no. A simple no thanks will suffice. Some other replies could be " Not right now, maybe later" or " I am not ready to play right now but happy to chat and say hello instead if you like?"
- Be kind if people get your pronouns and labels incorrect. Educate with patience in this instance. Please express yourself if required however please assume their error is not coming from a place of malice.
- Nerves can be sexy. It's ok to be a little shy if you have not a lot of experience in the area of swinger's parties. Your hosts will help you feel at home and comfortable in no time.
- SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THE NEXT DAY OR LATER AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN
