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PLAYERS PARTIES: $130 total. $30 deposit. $100 cash on arrival. QUEER AND BI PARTIES: $80 Bank Transfer required. GANG BANGS: $150 via BANK TRANSFER to approved gents. Please contact to be verified and given the banking details. No cash sales for Gang Bangs. NON REFUNDABLE/NON TRANSFERABLE: All deposits and payments are non transferable and non refundable once paid. If you do not attend the party date you RSVP's to, your deposit will be forfeited NO SHOWS/CANCELLATIONS: NO SHOW: We do not have much time for time wasters. If you no show without contacting us before the party to advise you are not coming, we will not invite you again. CANCELLATION: If you give us notice that you decide you need to cancel for whatever reason, we would gladly welcome you back. We will only tolerate this 3 times though. We would rather meet you than you continue to pay us money not to attend. PHOTO VALIDATION REQUIRED VIA TEXT MESSAGE : Our private events are by invitation only. Single men will need to send a current selfie holding a handwritten note with details we’ll provide when you message us. This helps us confirm you’re genuine and keeps the event safe and enjoyable for everyone. Verifi. Once you are verified with us We welcome single men who are genuine, respectful, and bring a positive, easygoing energy. It’s not about looks or ego—it’s about connection, good vibes, and being part of an experience where everyone feels valued. Paying to attend does not create entitlement—every guest has made the same commitment and retains full autonomy over their own body. We’re here to create a space where everyone feels respected, valued, and free to enjoy the night at their own pace. WE ARE LOOKING FOR MEN WHO:
  • Accept being told no without requiring an explanation
  • Can hold a conversation
  • Follow the rules
  • Follow host instructions
  • Can be respectful at all times
  • Always ask before you touch
  • Do not follow ladies around uncomfortably.
  • Are not visibly under the influence of drugs and who drink responsibly
  • Are presentable and hygienic
  • Age 21+ mature minded
INSIDER TIPS: Remember, first impressions count.
  • Shower before coming, put some nice clothes on (nothing too fancy but no shorts or thongs), a little cologne.
  • Tidy your areas. A little manscaping is always nice
  • Introduce yourself socially.
  • Be relaxed and genuine.
  • Just chat to people naturally, like you would in any other setting—no pressure or expectations. There is nothing worse than a single guy who talks to no one and then shoves his pelvis in a womans face once she becomes naked and vulnerable.
  • Nerves can be sexy. It's ok to be a little shy if you have not a lot of experience in the area of swinger's parties. Your hosts will help you feel at home and comfortable in no time.
  • Be kind when you say no. A simple no thanks will suffice. Some other replies could be " Not right now, maybe later" or " I am not ready to play right now but happy to chat and say hello instead if you like?"
  • NO BARRACKING - As a woman, I do not need another man to tell other men how they should fuck me. As a woman, I know how I want to be fucked. I have not spoken to a single woman who enjoys Barracking by other men. However, please feel free to barrack if the lady specifically requests it.
  • One of the most important tips Michelle feels has been lost on the scene since covid: Women who attend whether single or in a couple are Goddesses and Queens. If she does not feel comfortable, sexy and appreciated she will likely not want to play. It is in your best interest to attend as a single male with no noticeable self-interest. You will likely have a much better experience this way. We all know why you are there. Be a gentleman about it.
  • SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL LATER IN THE NIGHT OR THE NEXT DAY AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN
INTEMPERANCE IS PROUDLY SPONSORED BY ADULT MATCHMAKER. CLICK TOP RIGHT 3 LINES FOR INTEMPERANCE WEBSITE PAGES.
Contacts
📞TEXT ONLY: 0491651500 TELEGRAM CHANNEL FOR REAL TIME UPDATES: https://t.me/boost/intemperanceparties OR CLICK THE ICON BELOW ⬇️
NB: We do not accept private messages on Telegram. Please text directly to verify for a party invite
LOCATION: South East Melbourne: Clayton Oakleigh or Glen Waverley Area. Generally, within a 10 kilometre radius of these suburbs. Different address potentially each event so please do not just turn up if you have been before. It may be the same suburb but its likely a different address. Ensure to book in with us via text.
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