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WHAT HAPPENS AT A HOUSE PLAYERS/SWINGERS PARTY?
Every night at a party is always different so we recommend you don't come with any expectations and allow the night to flow naturally.
The night can range from a social occasion to a full orgy extravaganza and anything in between.
Our goal as a players party is complete debauchery. Bodies embraced and scattered everywhere but each party welcomes new and different people so the dynamics are ever changing.
Mostly a swingers party is like any other party except we happen to get undressed and some people have sex.
We socialise, we eat, we drink, we laugh, we are silly. We get to know one another. We make friends.
A house party is a different atmosphere than a club. More intimate in our opinion. More like going to a friend's party at their house.
ARE THERE ANY AGE RESTICTION?
Our party demographic is best suited to ages 35+
ARE THERE ANY BODY TYPE REQUIREMENTS?
Absolutely not. Everyone is welcome. We are non judgemental and non-discriminative. An all-inclusive party.
WHAT ARE THE EXPECTED NUMBERS?
We don’t provide numbers, as there’s no set limit on attendees—we love having as many people as possible join in! Some nights will be busier than others, and since we don’t take deposits at this stage, it’s natural that a few people may confirm but not show up.
If you’re overly focused on numbers or keep asking how many women will be attending, we may not be the right fit for you. Our parties are about creating a fun, relaxed atmosphere where everyone can enjoy themselves without pressure. Just come with an open mind, and you’ll have a great time!
I'M NEW TO THE LIFESTYLE. WHAT SHOULD I KNOW?
Although there is an emphasis being a "players party" we welcome any one new to the scene with no pressure to play ever. Make the night what you want the night to be.
Know your boundaries. What you are and are not willing/wanting to do. It's ok to say no. Never do anything you are not comfortable with or anything you do not want to do to impress anyone. You will regret it later. There should be no pressure. You should always feel comfortable. It is your experience after all remember.
The scene is very respectful. It might surprise you what a wonderful community the swinger scene is. Most know the rules. But like any community, you do get the occasional idiot. Make sure to speak to your hosts immediately if anyone is making you feel uncomfortable.
WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?
We recommend arriving between 8 PM and 10 PM to make the most of the night. To keep things running smoothly, we won’t be accepting any arrivals after 10 PM.
Our doors open at 8 PM and close at 10PM with the party wrapping up at 12 AM.
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR TO ARRIVE?
Neat and Casual. You will be walking maybe up to a couple of hundred metres in a residential street to get to the premise so please ensure appropriate attire to remain discreet
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR INSIDE?
Make yourself sexy on arrival if you like. Michelle will be in sexy lingerie on arrival such as a babydoll. Some people may choose to stay clothed until dress down which is ok too. Bring something you feel sexy in for dress down at least.
WHERE SHOULD I LEAVE MY CLOTHING AND VALUABLES?
There are no lockers so you would be welcome to put your clothes and valuables in an empty cupboard somewhere but please note these are your responsibility. We also recommend you not bringing any valuables.
DO YOU ACCEPT KINK AND BDSM?
WHAT ABOUT TOYS?
You are encouraged to bring your favourite toy however this is not a Kink/BDSM style party.
I HAVE A SPECIAL REASON I NEED MY PHONE ON ME. IS THIS OK?
Please speak to your hosts if you need to have your phone on you for any reason throughout the night and we will see what solution we can come up with. Given the nature of the night and the amount of non-consensual filming being done these days, if you must have your phone on you for any reason then we will probably recommend you trying another night when you do not require your phone so close.
Your hosts will have a phone on them all night for business purposes however no one else should need their phone at a social swingers party.
WHAT ABOUT HYGIENE AND PRESENTATION?
There will be a shower on premise, but please shower before you come and make yourself presentable. Shave or wax your bits if that's what you do. At least give a trim and tidy.
A little perfume or aftershave is always nice
WHAT'S YOUR BEST TIP FOR A SINGLE MALE?
One of the most important tips Michelle feels has been lost on the scene since covid: Women who attend whether single or in a couple are Goddesses and Queens. If she does not feel comfortable, sexy and appreciated she will likely not want to play. It is in your best interest to attend as a single male with no noticeable self-interest. You will likely have a much better experience this way. We all know why you are there. Be a gentleman about it.
More tips and info can be located on our Single Men page by CLICKING HERE
