Intemperance swingers and players party

couples

CASH TARIFF REQUIRED ON ARRIVAL $80 We consider a couple to be a male and female couple. We are not worried about your "couple status" whether you are married to each other, married to other people, dating or just friends. If you do come as a couple though, you need to leave as a couple as well. Please let us know what sort of experience you have on the scene when booking so we know how much of an eye we need to keep on you on the night. If you are completely new, we would keep a closer on you more so than people who are experienced swingers for example to ensure you are feeling safe and comfortable. SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL LATER IN THE NIGHT OR THE NEXT DAY AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN Most of the same rules do apply to couples as everyone else:
  • Accept being told no without requiring an explanation
  • Can hold a conversation
  • Follow the rules
  • Follow host instructions
  • Can be respectful at all times
  • Always ask before you touch
  • Are not visibly under the influence of drugs and who drink responsibly
  • Are presentable and hygienic
  • Aged 35+
INSIDER TIPS: Couples who play together, stay together.
  • Discuss what your boundaries are as a couple on the scene well prior to attending your first swinger's party. The swinging lifestyle can be brutal to couples who do not know what their boundaries are. What are you comfortable with doing? What are you comfortable with your partner doing? What will you not be comfortable with your partner doing? What is your safe word if something you are both doing is making you feel uncomfortable so the other partner knows to stop or intervene?
  • Remember also, when discussing your boundaries as a couple, you may agree to something before the party that makes you uncomfortable on the night. It's definitely ok to address this at the time it happens. Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
  • This is a body positive party. We welcome and admire any body type
  • No pressure to play ever! You are welcome to just come and socialise and/or watch if you like.
  • Be kind when you say no. A simple no thanks will suffice. Some other replies could be " Not right now, maybe later" or " I am not ready to play right now but happy to chat and say hello instead if you like?"
  • Nerves can be sexy. It's ok to be a little shy if you have not a lot of experience in the area of swinger's parties. Your hosts will help you feel at home and comfortable in no time.
  • SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THE NEXT DAY OR LATER AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN