Intemperance swingers and players party

SINGLE MEN

CASH TARIFF REQUIRED ON ARRIVAL $150 PHOTO VALIDATION REQUIRED: A current selfie will be required for single males, along with a photo of you holding a piece of paper that includes specific instructions from us. This is to ensure authenticity and confirm that you're genuine.. We’re also looking for a variety of men and will limit the number of similar-looking individuals. If that’s the case, we’ll kindly ask you to try another night. Our goal is to keep things diverse and fun for everyone. If your face does not match the photo you submitted upon arrival, you will not be allowed in. This is to ensure everyone’s safety and maintain the integrity of the event. We’re not looking for single men who think a perfect body and a big ego are all it takes. We’re after genuine, down-to-earth connections, where fun and good vibes are the focus. We’re also not looking for men who feel entitled just because they’ve paid to attend. Everyone else has paid to be here too and has full autonomy over their own body. That sense of entitlement has no place here, and honestly, it’s just not attractive. Respect and mutual enjoyment are what make this a great experience for everyone. We are only seeking single men who:
  • Accept being told no without requiring an explanation
  • Can hold a conversation
  • Follow the rules
  • Follow host instructions
  • Can be respectful at all times
  • Always ask before you touch
  • Do not follow ladies around uncomfortably. We call these "Meerkats"
  • Are not visibly under the influence of drugs and who drink responsibly
  • Are presentable and hygienic
  • Aged 35+
INSIDER TIPS: Remember, first impressions count.
  • Shower before coming, put some nice clothes on (nothing too fancy but no shorts or thongs), a little cologne.
  • Tidy your areas. A little manscaping is always nice
  • Introduce yourself socially.
  • Be relaxed and genuine.
  • Just chat to people naturally, like you would in any other setting—no pressure or expectations. There is nothing worse than a single guy who talks to no one and then shoves his pelvis in a womans face once she becomes naked and vulnerable.
  • Nerves can be sexy. It's ok to be a little shy if you have not a lot of experience in the area of swinger's parties. Your hosts will help you feel at home and comfortable in no time.
  • Be kind when you say no. A simple no thanks will suffice. Some other replies could be " Not right now, maybe later" or " I am not ready to play right now but happy to chat and say hello instead if you like?"
  • One of the most important tips Michelle feels has been lost on the scene since covid: Women who attend whether single or in a couple are Goddesses and Queens. If she does not feel comfortable, sexy and appreciated she will likely not want to play. It is in your best interest to attend as a single male with no noticeable self-interest. You will likely have a much better experience this way. We all know why you are there. Be a gentleman about it.
  • SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL LATER IN THE NIGHT OR THE NEXT DAY AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN