ON THIS PAGE: 1) About intemperance 2) About your hosts
About INTEMPERANCE
INTEMPERANCE MEANING:
Intemperance refers to excessive or immoderate indulgence
The evening began with effortless elegance—crystal glasses raised in toast, gourmet dishes shared among lively conversation, and an atmosphere of refined indulgence. As the hours passed, sophistication gave way to spontaneity; wine flowed more freely, laughter grew louder, and formality faded. By midnight, jackets were discarded, heels abandoned, and measured restraint replaced by uninhibited joy. What started as a polished affair transformed into a warm, carefree celebration of life’s pleasures, where elegance and excess blended into an unforgettable night.
(Cough, Cough) Let me interpret this for you!!
We are Intemperance House Parties!
And we like to play!!!!
We do welcome any body so long as you are respectful and follow the usual swinger etiquette. Our expected etiquette can be located on our Etiquette Page Here
Make the night what you want the night to be.
Please see our FAQ page here more details.
The atmosphere is electric with loud laughter and excitement, as everyone embraces the fun of the night. Drinks flow freely and the energy is contagious. People shed their jackets and shoes, letting the music and good vibes take over. It’s a night where the laughter echoes, the fun never stops, and every moment feels alive with joy.
MEET YOUR HOSTS
We are Doug (63yo) and Michelle (44yo). Both on the scene since 2016, we met at a swingers party in 2017 and were married in January 2024. Our lifestyle has continued strong throughout. Our boundaries are very strong because we both understand how challenging this scene can be for couples without clear agreements.
Michelle is the elegant force behind Intemperance—both the mind and energy that brings each experience to life. She’ll be your point of contact, whether connecting online or over the phone, ensuring every detail is handled with warmth and professionalism.
Michelle is a gorgeous, curvy brunette ( was blonde, gone back to natural colour) with a laugh that’s absolutely contagious. She brings energy wherever she goes and, depending on the night, can be a bit of a player and a greedy goddess—she’s even been known to start a few parties! She loves both women and men equally and is always up for some fun.
Doug is a tall, handsome silver fox who appreciates women of all shapes and sizes with a taste for a curvier woman. His tongue has some incredible talents—at least, according to Michelle! Hehehe. As we are regulars at other parties, Doug has taken the role as gatekeeper and shepherd at Intemperance. He remains clothed throughout the night to watch over the flock and be available immediately to attend a difficult situation shall the need arise. He may play on occasion if the opportunity arises and the party is running smoothly and safely enough for him to do so.
We love to play and understand the rules, but as hosts, our priority is making sure you feel completely comfortable as our guests.
Anyone who’s been on the scene for a while would probably know us. Whether you like us or not—that’s another question! Hahaha. Nah, we’re alright. 😉
If the party is not already started by 10.00pm, you can be assured Doug and Michelle will start the party!!! (Hence why there is no entry from 10.00pm)
Doug and Michelle
